Adultism is the oppression of young people by adults and elders.
Ageism is the oppression of elders by youth and adults.
I had no idea that these two terms existed before this class. It was as though it was considered normal. I mean i was always told to respect your elders and such but i never knew that there were terms out there for this such thing.
Personally, i catch my self at times stereotyping and oppressing the older people. You know there's always that slow older woman at the light that is taking her sweet time turning when you're in a hurry to get somewhere. We've all had that moment. Maybe myself having more than others :) haha. There are some older people that are capable of accomplishing many things just as they did when they were younger but there are also some that you know don't need to be doing the things they're trying to do.
On the other hand older people tend to have that mentality that young people of today aren't capable of accomplishing many things. I've experienced it a couple of times because of my age. I guess they would feel more secure if someone of older age is more capable and they might think that they are more knowledgeable as well.
All in all everybody just needs to give everyone a chance. Don't assume things. Just see how it plays out and go from there. Who knows one day when were in that position we might feel the same way about young people and young people might feel the same way about us "older people."
To lighten up the mood, my friend posted this video on facebook to cheer up our day. I thought it was hilarious. so enjoy!
Desiree -
ReplyDeleteI agree with your overall point-of-view. Also, before this class, I didn't know that such terms as "ageism" or "adultism" existed either. I love the video clip. It's funny, yet proves that whenever a person is physically/mentally able to complete a task, it doesn't matter what age/gender/SES, etc. he/she is. It can be done. Great post!
Like you i am more careful since Ive been in this class. When i was reading this chapter I couldn't believe that i have misjudged people this way. What i feel worst about is the older people driving. I would get a little frustrated and once i saw who's driving I would just say "well no wonder, they're old!" And i would do the same with kids or teenagers. I can't imagine when we start working as social workers what some people will think seeing us so young! thats scary lol anyways, great video i loved it!!!
ReplyDeleteI was only introduced to these concepts through this class as well, and now I see it everywhere! That odd phenomenon of once you become aware of something it continuously pops up in your everyday. I have also found myself more conscious of these new concepts and have begun to train myself to recognize the situations and act accordingly. Awesome post!
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